I can't believe its been a month since I wrote last. Wow...and so as we know last Sunday night we experienced the slap heard and seen around the world. There have been so many perspectives from it was a setup by a big Pharmaceutical company to get Alopecia trending around the world to bring attention to their new drug to treat Alopecia to what I believe is an unresolved trauma response to what was supposed to be a funny comment about the Actor's wife's shaved head.
Childhood trauma often goes unresolved because people don't realize it is simmering and festering within the unconscious and we are supposed to keep the abuse secret. Shhh...don't tell anyone we didn't all grow up in the Leave it To Beaver or Donna Reid perfect TV family. And how could we as we have all been raised in the Patriarchal Paradigm created over 6000 years ago which coded men for power over, domination and control. Coding women for subserviency and submission. Violence has always been an accepted way to defend and sometimes like what is happening with the Ukraine war when invaders are attempting to conquer Ukraine against its will...you either cave or you stand and defend with military equipment. In the case of last Sunday night at the Oscars, there was something that went deep into the actor to trigger him after initially laughing at the joke when his wife was clearly not amused...that put him into whatever old injury that he felt in front of millions of people he had to stride up onto a stage and slap the comedian that delivered the joke. I find those kinds of jokes on the abusive side...but that is just me.
I am hoping that the three people involved will be able to come together in a dialogue or multiple dialogues and action plans of healing for all. It is important to identify any childhood traumas and stressors so that you can do the work to release and heal the trauma so that it doesn't rear its head when the trigger words or body language or other flags turn into a disease response within the body or a violence reaction instead of being able to find a reasonable response to express your disappointment or hurt. Anger and violence is pain and the patriarchal paradigm has supported violence and anger as the go-to solution although violent reactions are inappropriate it is understandable how it happens when it resides deep within the unconscious. I know from my own experiences in life how it works...
There is a great healing opportunity for all involved if they televise or print their dialogue and solutions for all those that watch. It is very possible to turn a very negative experience into positive change as we continue to work towards transforming power over into empowerment through love.
My program AgelessThrival has those taking the course identify every childhood trauma they can remember so we can release the stress of it or find the appropriate practitioner that can help them resolve the pain so it doesn't morph into an illness later in life. So look inward into your own childhood, identify the traumas and find an appropriate practitioner to help you release any stored pain so it doesn't fester in your nervous system.
I love you!